Step 2: Make your cat like you
Now that you’ve successfully earned your cat’s respect, you need to get it to like you too. After all, who wants a soft and fluffy cat that you can’t pet?
Sadly, many humans struggle with the feeling that their cats don’t appreciate or return their love. They might be met with nothing but claws and hisses when trying to cuddle.
But don’t worry! I will help you fix this issue right away. Soon your unfriendly cat will be begging to be cuddled!
The trick here is to not get seduced by the cuteness of your cat.
For example: When you walk into a room and see your cat, what do you do? Squeal at it that it’s oh so cute and douse it in cuddles? No! No cat wants a clingy owner. Besides, this will only feed the cat’s ego, and that is a slippery slope!
Instead, you need to master the art of being hard to get.
Examples:
- Whenever you see your cat, you simply ignore it.
- You keep your head high, sit down in your softest chair and make your legs awfully attractive for a cat to lie on. It will not be able to resist.
- If it starts to purr you might occasionally grace a stroke upon it – but certainly not too much!
The essential technique when training your cat is to be the biggest diva in the room. This is a psychological battle. The only thing a big ego respects is an even BIGGER ego. Want to be the master of your cat? Have the biggest ego!
You’ll see. The cat will very soon sense your supremacy and succumb to your will.
